Bliss Cruise Day 6 & 7 - 2025

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Bliss Cruise Day 6 & 7 2025

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[laughs][music] You are listening to Swingology, a lifestyle podcast. Swingology is for adult entertainment only, and we're not licensed professionals. Our show features adult themes, language, and descriptions of sexual acts and desires. If you're under 18, this is not the show for you. The ideas and opinions expressed are those of the speaker only and not of any company or entity, and should not be considered professional advice. Now, let's stimulate your mind. Welcome back to another episode of Swingology, a lifestyle podcast. We are your host, Tori Kis. And Steve Kis. And today, we're going to be talking about being on the Bliss Cruise Day 6, Day 7, November 2025. And it's two days in one episode because it was such a blur of adventures and activities, and we didn't have time on Day 7 to record Day 6. So here it is. Now, let's rewind, Steve. Back to Day 6. We were at Sea All Day Long. And this cruise ship has cabanas by the pool, but this cruise ship also has in-claves. Okay. So it was all coves by the pool and cabanas on the lawn. Right. Or something like that. Yeah. No, it's like that. So the lawn and all cruise ships have a lawn. It's just like a green field in the back of the ship. There's no pool. There's no hot tub. It's a green field. You can lay a picnic blanket down there. There's a screen. But during the day, there's like a restaurant nearby. And it's just a place to socialize. There's not loud music back there. So it's definitely our style. We can vibe. So we had a rental all day long over there. So with the rental, it comes with like a drink package. It comes with a waiter, a choice of alcohol, food options, and that kind of thing. So we put out there that we were to a bunch of our friends and some of the chat groups up, hey, here's your opportunity. We're hanging out here, not doing anything. Several people came by, stopped, visited, chatted with us, that kind of thing. So we had a good time there. We did. And we also went around to the other cabanas in that area and said hello to the people staying in those because this is your hangout spot. You're going to be here planted for pretty much the whole day. So we want to go see who our neighbors were and we met some sexy couples that might come up later in this episode. After the cabana, we spent some more time in the spa. Yep, we did the scrubs, the sauna, the dry room, and hung out on the hot table again. Yeah, I definitely recommend looking into the spa sanctuary on the cruise ships that you go on. If you ever sometimes just need to get away from the crowd and maybe you don't want to go to your cabin because that's where you sleep. I mean, the spa is an area you pay one price and you get access to it all week long or forever, long days your cruise is. There's normally a steam room and hot tables. You just lay back and look out the window and it's so relaxing. We like the cold room. Did you tell? Did we talk about it last time going into the cold, the hot room first to get your pores open and sweaty and then going into the cold room right after to freeze everything and it's just like refreshing in your pores. Well, if we didn't, you just did. Yeah, it was fun. It was fun. There was actually a lot more people in the spa that day. So there was a lot more connecting and sharing of stories and experiences and networking and all that. I will say that I was not expecting the sauna spa to be a location for connecting with people, but that's really what it was. We connected with quite a few people there. Just chatting, get to know each other and then meeting them up later, seeing them around on the cruise ship. Yep. After the spa, Stephen and I went back to our room to get ready for dinner. And the theme that night was fetish night. So you had a lot of people wearing strepy lunch, ray, you had a lot of those. You had a lot of people with leashes, you had a lot of people with masks on, floggers, were all over the place. A lot of BDSM type things. People walking around with very curious, odd curiosities, like electro ones and other odds and ends. Yes, so what I decided to wear that day was just a sexy, teal colored, brown panty sat with a very silky, flowy robe. So I was just going with a casual, sexy look. Right. And I didn't really have a fetish to dress into. So I just kind of looked like a pimps. No, you did not. You did not. No, no, no, no, no, no. That is so not true, guys. He wore a gentleman's button up shirt with a pair of comfortable shorts and nice dial is comfortable. Like they're not sneakers, but they do lace up, you know. So he looked nice. He was not a pimp. There was no jewelry hanging on them. There was no Colt either. Dollar bill signs or sunglasses. Okay, that's a pimp from the movies. That's what I thought was like a club dude. So or a pimp, you know. Whatever you want to look like, my love. Yeah, that was a great night. We walked around, we socialized, we met people, we were looking for. The dungeon was very busy that night. We actually didn't make it to the dungeon because it was fetish night. I mean, we knew the dungeon was going to be crowded and we don't have a high interest in the BDSM, Kink scene world fetish world. So we just know what we're going to leave that space for people that are more interested at than us. I'm interested on a more small group, but not in a big crowded room. Right. Well earlier that day, we were at a meet and greet. I think we're waiting to meet someone. And we met a lovely couple out of Portland, Oregon who teach about fetishes, unique fetishes. Oh yeah. Very nice to all men and I would love to connect further. Just some interesting people. I'm almost certain we're going to meet with them this sometime this year. Yeah, maybe we will tell you guys about it if we travel up to Portland and meet with them and learn more because I actually considered having him on as a guest speaker. Just the time wasn't there to record. Right, that was because you poured a whole ton of sexual energy into me that night. I don't think we went to bed until like 7 a.m. Yeah, so after fetish nights, Steven and I went back to our room, went on the balcony, you know, did our couples thing and last little night, and it was lovely and sweaty, but lovely in the end. That was very interesting. You know, normally you go to the bliss crews and you're really focused on connecting and meeting other people and we did that. But also there were, I guess, several days where we were walking around avoiding the loud, crowded areas, looking for loungy places and we were just kind of like waiting for people to approach or we would approach others. And for several days, we just, you know what, let's just focus on ourselves. Yes. And here's an interesting thing as well. And numerous people on the ship said this to us as well. There's a lot more DTF people on this sailing than expected. There's very little flirting going on. There's more meet and greet. Let's go play room. I mean, even for the couple that met with us for the dinner, there was almost no flirting between the other husband and my wife. Right. Yes, when we went on Day 6 to the dinner. And it's like, how do you move from just having conversation? There's no flirting. There's no breaking. There's no winking at me or touching my arm. I don't know. There just wasn't anything there. And that was the time when you started talking to me about, you know, that's not the first time that I've received no flirting with people on the ship. And then we went back through all of our memories and how many people we met on the ship. And we kind of started like, you know, you've only been really flirted on two or three times. And you ended up playing with one of them. Exactly. So it was like, wow. I just need some initiation, some spicy little energy to spark it. And then I'm all there. But if it's just dry and high, I'm so and so, I want to go to the play room. It's not for me. What about Day 7? Do we want to transition to Day 7? Day 7 was an odd day because we went to bed at 7am technically on Day 6. Then we woke up at 10am. So we're operating off of very few hours of sleep. On Day 7, we had originally made plans to interview the interesting couple from Portland. But we were crunched on time. They were crunched on time. It wasn't going to work out. To record an episode, you need at least. I would say the recording on a really good, talkative, interesting subject, an hour, but you going to want to spend time before that recording and a little time after that recording. So an overall two hours would be perfect. Right. And they were like, well, we got 45 minutes. I don't know if we left this. That's not enough to do anything because he had some great info to share. Yeah, that wasn't going to work. So we'd let that go. But we still met with them, vived for a little bit. Shared contact info. Shared contact info so we can meet up with them later in the year, which I'm more than certain we will. And we'll get a recording out of them at another time. Hopefully. At the end of that meeting, I was pushing up against my play date that I had scheduled from the day before. Let's talk about that. So when we had the alcoves, the cabana is on the lawn. We went to each of the cabanas where we met everyone. That's when Steve made a strong connection with one of the beautiful redheads. Well, not really redhead, but I mean, there was a tint of red to it. Okay, I've ruined that. Sure. Anyway, went to their cabana. I kind of zeroed in on a right away. And we're standing there. I think you were doing the initial talking at that time, getting to know them and that kind of thing. And then there was this other girl. She asked me to sit next to her and I did. She was very forward. It was a good way to put it. And I don't mind forward. In fact, sometimes I prefer forward. I even like forward. Forward is good. But my eyes were already on the other girl, right? So I'm getting this really forward energy. I typically like from a girl, which I mean, I don't know. Could be possibly. But I was looking at her. I was looking at the other one. And we- It almost came across as distraction, maybe? Yeah. And the other girl that I had an interest in and already had made some eye contact. There's already some smiles. And there's already like some sexual chemistry tension growing. And I knew that there was something there and I didn't want to spend a whole lot of time pushing that energy somewhere else. Anyway, so we got their contact information, I think through the bliss app. And later that day, I sent a message. Yes, you did. And started chatting with them about me possibly being a hot wife for them. Right. Because you actually- Okay, that's true. That's right, thank you. My wife had a inclination, if you recall, at the beginning of the bliss cruise to possibly be a hot wife for a couple. And while I'm over here making the eyes with the wife, my wife was over there making eyes with the husband. Yeah, because I was giving Brett energy and he was giving Brett Tamer energy and I was totally eating that up because I don't get it very often. So we sent a message through the bliss app to communicate, hey, you know, Tori has this desire to possibly be a unicorn for a couple. What do you guys think about this? They came back with, well, let's talk about this in person and maybe we can do something. So then when we met in person- We met in person the nights of day six. Yeah, during the fetish party, we met in person. And- It was pretty late. It was like at 10 something. The gentleman was like, I am running really low on sexual energy. I was like, I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. I'm really low on sexual energy. Suddenly, I'm kind of in the forefront and my wife is taking a back seat. I'm comfortable in the back seat. There's no issue with that at all. We're both okay with that. I just found it ironic. Right. Because my wife doesn't play that often. This was my chance. I was going out there and, oh, nope, that's fine. So you guys made lunch date. Yeah, we made a lunch date. The lunch play date for day seven. Yes, it was. In this scenario, the husband loves to watch. He has a tremendous amount of compulsion and I felt like it was going to be a really good, it was going to be a really good play session. I show up to the play station, right? Play station? Play station. Play date? I mean, she was fun, so. Call her a play station? No. You show up to the play date. My playground. So I showed up to the play date. In their cabin. In their cabin. I requested permission to take possession of said person. Possession. Okay, we need to explain this one a little bit. She was wearing a. Yeah, she was wearing a leash when we met them the night of day six. And I had gotten the impression that night that the leash, it's like indication that, you know, she is connected to someone else and there's a level of, there's some kind of layer of dumb sub relationship. Now, it can mean lots of different things, lots of different people. So I just out of respect and not really sure the level of the power dynamic. Power dynamic. It's just better to play safe and I just requested permission to temporarily take control of the leash. What happened? Did they give you the leash? No, because when I met them, she didn't have a leash. Oh, so when you went to the play date, there was no leash on. Right. Okay, but you still asked. I still asked. And he relinquished control. He's like, oh, yes, absolutely. Thank you for asking. Okay, nice. There's a couple other things I'd like to say before I dived into details. One of the things was that I am more of a small group slash, I'm going to devote my energy to one person type play partner, right? I'm not like, I'll go to an orgy. Sure. Pick one or two and you stick it there. But that type of play is completely different from another type of play that I like to engage in. And that's usually more longer drawn out with multiple rounds of sex and different activities, including massages and cuddle puddles and all kinds of stuff. There's usually a break for showers and that kind of thing. I was told that this play date was going to be an hour at the first. And then when I was approaching the play date time, it was like, well, maybe this should be like 45 or 30 minutes. And so I felt like this time crunch. Yeah, a little time crunch. And there's nothing wrong with that. I just normally if someone said we've got 30 minutes to play, I don't do it. Yeah. And so here we go, like 30 minutes and I'm like, but you really liked her. Right. Right. That was one kind of thing that I was mentally, and this is just a me thing. I had a mentally overcome to get there, to walk into the door. I mean, the other thing was that my wife completely drained me. Remember guys, we had four hours of sleep on day seven. Four hours of sleep, day five. And then on day six, we had three hours of sleep. Something like that. He was running low energy. And he still had sexual energy, but it wasn't top notch like he normally has. So he was going into this event, this play date with time crunch expectations and I had three hours of sleep. And my dick had been used for damn near five hours straight less than 12 hours ago. So I was not confident about my sexual prowess going into that room. But you didn't want to cancel because you had good integrity. Right. I would rather show up and embarrass myself than just not show up because I hate, I just hate to strong word. I really dislike people who flake on ghosting. And thank you. That you set in stone, right? If it's in the calendar, I'm going, you know, that kind of thing. The experience was amazing. I really enjoyed it. I had a great time. I think she had a great time. There was lots of laughing and get a villain and then the husband got lots of great visuals. I wasn't able to perform throughout the entire date, but that didn't matter because we made a great deal out of the rest of the time. And it turns out she doesn't like long play sessions anyway. You know, she likes to keep it short and sweet. And so it kind of worked out all around. Afterward, they didn't kick me out of their room immediately, which I liked because I like you know, developing the connection and keep to keep things going. And I prefer that, right? So we're just the three of us are just sitting around talking, getting to know each other better. And they both commented about how they liked that. You know, the guy didn't just run off and that kind of thing. I don't know. We built a really good friendship right there. And then I left the play date. They messaged me about an hour later that said they just had like their best sex of their crews after their play date was named. And they thanked me for that. That's amazing. So I was like, wow. Thank you. Sure. Shortly after which they invited us to dinner. Yeah, I want everyone to a little bit because you told me something post play that you didn't mention here so far that she scored it. And she normally is super self conscious when that happens and runs to the shower, which is understandable. But in this case, when she's squirted, you're all excited about it and too enthusiastic and you totally made her feel comfortable about it and she didn't have to run off to the shower. So I love that. I wish she was here to talk about her point of view on that because that's just my view and my perception on why she was okay with it. I'm thinking it was your enthusiasm because you can just be happy and excited with orgasms and that. I think there was probably layers to it. Layers to it. And that was just one of the layers. And I don't, yeah, I don't know. But she, like, it was kind of a big deal for them and for that because normally it would just end. Right. But she didn't let it end right there and there's kind of, there was a reason why and they, I'm sure they processed through that afterward and yeah, I'd like to hear more about that later. Yeah. So after you came back, I mean, I was sleeping during that experience when you came back, we packed up the room because, you know, the very next day was Decembercation day and we went off to dinner in which was with that couple. Mm-hmm. So the theme for the last night was cops and convicts. So I wore a sexy, orange kind of skimpy jumper and my husband Steve wore a police outfit to the best of his ability and he wore it well, guys. Oh my gosh. The police hat on his head was sexy. Anyway, moving on. We had dinner. I got to connect with them further. There were like us, they would like quality over quantity and they don't do the whole DTF thing as much as a lot of the other people in the cruise ship seem to be doing. They were recalling that they had met a couple that or I should say a play partner at least where the first experience is great. The second experience was not so much and then the third experience as I believe was a hall pass and it was the worst of the three experiences. And they were like we're not going to entertain that anymore. After dinner with them, we went off to the Skyloange which was not a party scene, it was a lounge scene. At the time. Yep. And we were going to meet up with some other friends and they never actually showed because they were at the theater show. The Skyloange became a party scene and that's fine. We did connect with a local friend that lives in Florida with us and got to see her experience and she, wow, she was a DTF gal had so many amazing sexy experiences. I'm so happy for her. She was just lighting up like a Christmas tree telling us these experiences. I've never seen anyone so happy about how much sex they were having with so many people in a short amount of time. She was just beaming. So like she would be in the play room with the partner and her husband would be in the Skyloange meeting other guys getting information. She'd come out, he'd have a new person, she was like oh there's more and she'd go in. It's like wow. So dynamic was perfect for them. It really is. Literally, she would go into a one on one with a guy. The husband's out and about looking for another guy for his wife. He would find one and said okay meet me here in our cabin in 90 minutes and then she would come out of her play session, grab a bottle of water and walk into their cabin into another one. During which time he goes back out, finds another guy, says meet me at the Salarian play room in 30 minutes. Wife comes out, maybe there's a little break, maybe there's not. She goes literally, she was talking about how she was almost late to the one of the play dates because she had a like run across the boat to get there. She comes into that play room panting and then excited and jumps right into that one. And she's like I had sex like four times before lunch. And it was like I was like wow. She probably outsexed everybody on that ship. For real though. And I'm so happy. They just entered the lifestyle this year. So they're just diving head first. Right. So they, it was their first bliss cruise. Yes. They just entered the lifestyle less than a year ago. And they are loving. I would like to ask them some questions about how that's affected their relationship and all that. But the husband was into it, you know. He was into it and every day four o'clock they were in the spa sanctuary, scrambling each other up and spinning time, connecting in the sauna. And one of the vents actually she played in the sauna. Remember it was steamy and she was like I don't know how they could do that because it's a hot, hot steamy room. How do you exert energy and I don't know. I'd be more worried about like I have no. Is that healthy? I don't know, but my point here is that we might have an experience on the cruise ship and you might look at it and hear it and wonder well that sounds not like I would like it. But this other woman had a whole different experience. So it is what you make it. Right. I mean, if there's anything to take away from the recordings of all the bliss cruise episodes, it's that the bliss cruise is what you make of it. You specifically are not. I agree. I'm not a DTF person right now. You're more of a sapiosexual. Definitely. Sapiosexual. Myself, I'm much closer to the DTF spectrum, but I still need to develop some kind of, you know, interest, chemistry, exchange. I need to have some kind of initial energy exchange before. I could definitely do a quick 15 or 30 minute drink at a bar and then go play. That's absolutely possible, but not like, you know what though? What is it? It's odd because if I'm in the play room and I'm playing with you next to another sexy couple, I don't need to know their name. I'll play and I'll go. Are you talking about swapping? Yes. Okay, so let me repaint. You and I could go to the play room. We're playing on the bed next to us is another couple playing and we asked to swap and then we do our thing and then we leave. Yes. You know why? I think it's because there's no time to think about it. There's no time to like spontaneous nodding. Yeah, it's like more of a spontaneous thing. You're already having sexual energy. You're already in the moment. You're already in the mood and you don't have to think too much about anything to just move your body a couple feet to the right and play with. While the alternative is going to a meet and greet, shaking someone's hand and saying, let's go to the play room. That's not very sexy, but in the act in the play room, that is more sexy. I don't know. I'll have to process that a little bit more. You've been changing a lot over the year, even like last year. You went to the bus on the bus cruise. You went to the play room to walk around just to see if there was anything for you. This time you didn't do that at all. I didn't. Yeah. I never walked into the play room as a single guy looking for a mischief. Looking for play. Right. I don't think I did that. Nope. After we met up with the friend who told us all about her sexy escapes, we decided to go to the hangout, like the hideout. The hideout is kind of like a quiet nook overlooking the elevators. It's a place where you could have a meet and greet, but there's no live music. There's no bar there. It's just a quiet seated area with a great visual. Steve and I replayed the memories of each day and talked about who are the favorite people that we've met, the favorite experiences, what we could have changed and that sort of thing. The favorite person that I met, so I'll share this. On the cruise ship is definitely the couple out of Portland, Oregon, who I'm probably going to be flying up there later this next year to learn more about their, learn more about them because they just seemed so interesting to my CPU sexual brain. That's my favorite person that I met on the cruise. Steve, the favorite person that you met on the cruise is the lady that you played with with the leash. That's what you had told me. You were like so tired. You were almost zombie like when you were talking to you. Remember this conversation? I think I mentioned two people. Well, first, I didn't say her specifically in individual, I believe. I think I mentioned them as a couple. Oh, yeah, yeah, because the husband, you mentioned the couple. Yeah, the husband. Right. I don't know. I feel like the connect, like it wasn't as initial as like as I had with the wife, but like his energy and his enthusiasm for his comparison and everything else. That means the sense of, he's just the guy that other guys could look at and know that like, okay, he's a guy and I can trust this dude. He's also a doctor, so there's something there too. The other people that was my favorite new people that I hadn't seen before that I was just now meeting for the first time was a couple that had listened to one or two of our podcasts or very enthusiastic. We met at the bar when you were sleeping one of the nights and they wanted to go play like at that moment. They were considering canceling their appointment because we were just vibing so hard. They didn't want to be at their appointment that night. The wife wanted to leave immediately. The husband wanted to as well, but he was like, listen, we don't flake. I was kind of glad to hear them say that because I'm that same type person. I don't flake either. I was kind of like, no, no, no, and maybe I kind of pushed him to stay. I was like, no, no, don't break your appointment. Keep your appointment. Make it short if you want to. That's up to you guys. I'll be available for hours later. Just send me a message and they never sent a message and I asked them meet up with them later. They said, absolutely, let's do it. Nothing firm was set in stone and we never ran into each other. But even though play never occurred with them, like I really enjoyed their vibe and I got to know them very well and there was lots of good flirting. Amazing. When it comes to packing for the Bliss Crews last year and this year and looking forward to the next year, I feel like I've overpacted. I'm going to bring a lot less clothes. I'm going to bring a lot less shoes. And I think we had plenty of sweatbands. That's funny. What about you, Steve? Would you change anything of our packing? I probably overpact casual clothes, honestly. Also our memory of the last crews on the pool deck at night when we were stargazing, that kind of thing. It was much colder and we were worried about more cold weather nights on this cruise and we were last crews in which case it was still windy. But it wasn't as cold and we didn't need the cold weather stuff. Yeah, absolutely. Alright, well, that summarizes the week on the Bliss Crews and we'll definitely are already booked on the November 20th, 26th crew. So if you're going, be sure to say hello to us. We'll be happy to talk and connect with you. Thank you so much for listening and tuning in to stimulate your minds. Stimulate your mind. Bye, guys. Thank you so much for listening to Swingology. I'm truly honored to have you as a listener. If you liked what you've heard, consider subscribing to our podcast or connecting with us on social media. The links can be found with the episode show notes. 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